dodgylogic:

insufficient-earth-skills:

moon-boob:

fecundism:

prissygrrrl:

fecundism:

fecundism:

ive been reading a book that basically explains how so-called “brain differences” between the genders is the result of gendered socialization and not the cause of it. i honestly expected the book to be very cis-centric but its actually the opposite, the author stresses that testimony from trans ppl is actually indispensable because we’ve, in a sense, “lived both experiences”

more cis feminists should have this mindset

one of the first examples that she uses to introduce her point about how perception by others can shape a person’s performance actually uses a trans woman. it explains that as a certain trans woman became to be seen as a woman more and more frequently, the ppl arond her eventually started viewing her as being ill equipped for tasks that they did not bother her about pre-transition. eventually she even found herself underperforming in these tasks herself.

whats the name of the book

Delusions of Gender by Cordelia Fine

Here’s a pdf, babes ❤

I knew it was this book before I’d finished reading the first two lines. Honestly this book is indispensible if you want to debunk any gender determinism people claim is science. I can’t recommend it enough.

She’s written a new one! It won the Royal Society prize for science book of the year, and it’s called Testosterone Rex, and it is excellent.

(Bonus: it’s making old white men really really mad.)

(Bonus bonus: I am myself a neuroscientist, and the old white men mentioned above – who are not – could not have missed the point harder if they’d actively tried. Which. Maybe?)

archaeologysucks:

@politicsaccordingtohistory replied to your post “would you say that archaeology is mostly a male dominated field?”

Well, how many women are out making the discoveries compared to men, while how many women are going to be researching recovered artifacts to learn more of them compared to men? The funny thing is, schools have a very high number of women running them. All over. From teachers to the lunch staff. Is that a bad thing?

  1. There is no lab/field gendered divide in professional archaeology. Women are involved in all aspects of archaeological work, from research to project planning to field work to artifact curation and analysis to report writing.
  2. The assumption that “discoveries” happen in the field more often than in the lab, where the collected data and materials are analyzed, is incorrect.
  3. Women holding a wide array of jobs in schools does not actually have any bearing on the subject. We are talking here about figures of authority and influence.
  4. Academia in general is still heavily male-dominated, by which I mean the majority of top-level positions are held by men. But don’t just take my word for it.
  5. Academic archaeology is still heavily male-dominated. Men occupy more professorships, and professors are more likely to have their ideas taken seriously, and their publications read and circulated, even outside academia, in the popular realm.
  6. Most of the “great” (i.e., well-known) archaeologists and anthropologists have historically been (white) men. Their ideas about archaeology and culture have been centered for centuries, with the entire discipline of archaeology built around them. It is only relatively recently that many of these ideas have been seriously called into question or begun being dismantled, as people other than white men have begun moving up in academia and being taken seriously.

There is still a great deal of work to be done before archaeology is not a male-dominated field.

Some sources for your consideration:

annaknitsspock:

paulatheprokaryote:

lenyberry:

yayfeminism:

Why does being a woman put you at greater risk of having anxiety?
Part biology, part what we teach our kids about their place in the world.

So we’re teaching girls to be anxious wrecks and boys to disregard the possibility of consequences for incautious behavior. 

This explains a lot of things. Like… why women are anxious wrecks and men are frequently surprised when it turns out their actions do in fact have consequences.

And why men don’t bother asking for help even when they really need it, and thus more frequently die from treatable health conditions (including depression), while women end up getting a broad stereotype of being hypochondriacs (and then having a hard time getting treatment for legitimate health concerns).

https://www.ted.com/talks/caroline_paul_to_raise_brave_girls_encourage_adventure/transcript

Great example of how feminism serves not just women but people of all genders, including men.

Women-owned businesses generate $68,000 less revenue than men’s: survey

onpoli:

The wage gap between men and women has been long-standing – with women
on average making 74 cents for every dollar of annual salary made by
men, according to the most recent Statistics Canada data – but research
from by PayPal Canada and consulting firm Barraza and Associates
suggests that this dynamic also applies to those who own small-and-
medium sized businesses as well.


Businesses owned by women generate an average of $68,000 less revenue
than men who run similar businesses, representing a gap of 58 per cent,
according to the online survey of 1,000 Canadian small and medium-sized
businesses between Jan. 26 and Feb. 28.


One barrier to growth for women-owned businesses is access to capital,
the survey suggested. Roughly 53 per cent of women-owned businesses with
an e-commerce component said it was “easy” for their company to get
business credit to grow their business, falling short of the 67 per cent
of men who reported getting loans with ease, the survey found.

The Liberal government has prioritized gender equality and increased
participation in the workforce. Among the many initiatives aimed at this
goal as part of its latest budget, Ottawa has allocated $1.4 billion
over three years from the Business Development Bank in new financing for
female entrepreneurs and $105 million over five years to help the
regional development agencies support women-led businesses.

In addition to the financing options offered, there are also advisory services available for female business owners. Other funding has been put towards getting more women into the workforce, especially in construction and male-dominated trades. However, the Liberals opted against increasing childcare funding in this year’s budget, even though they’re fully aware that high childcare costs are a barrier to employment for women.

Women-owned businesses generate $68,000 less revenue than men’s: survey

astronomically-androngynous:

sounddesignerjeans:

princess-mint:

alarajrogers:

niambi:

I’m????

Oh my God this actually explains so much.

So there’s a known thing in the study of human psychology/sociology/what-have-you where men are known to, on average, rely entirely on their female romantic partner for emotional support. Bonding with other men is done at a more superficial level involving fun group activities and conversations about general subjects but rarely involves actually leaning on other men or being really honest about emotional problems. Men use alcohol to be able to lower their inhibitions enough to expose themselves emotionally to other men, but if you can’t get emotional support unless you’re drunk, you have a problem.

So men need to have a woman in their lives to have anyone they can share their emotional needs and vulnerabilities with. However, since women are not socialized to fear sharing these things, women’s friendships with other women are heavily based on emotional support. If you can’t lean on her when you’re weak, she’s not your friend. To women, what friendship is is someone who listens to all your problems and keeps you company.

So this disconnect men are suffering from is that they think that only a person who is having sex with you will share their emotions and expect support. That’s what a romantic partner does. But women think that’s what a friend does. So women do it for their romantic partners and their friends and expect a male friend to do it for them the same as a female friend would. This fools the male friend into thinking there must be something romantic there when there is not.

This here is an example of patriarchy hurting everyone. Women have a much healthier approach to emotional support – they don’t die when widowed at nearly the rate that widowers die and they don’t suffer emotionally from divorce nearly as much even though they suffer much more financially, and this is because women don’t put all their emotional needs on one person. Women have a support network of other women. But men are trained to never share their emotions except with their wife or girlfriend, because that isn’t manly. So when she dies or leaves them, they have no one to turn to to help with the grief, causing higher rates of death, depression, alcoholism and general awfulness upon losing a romantic partner. 

So men suffer terribly from being trained in this way. But women suffer in that they can’t reach out to male friends for basic friendship. I am not sure any man can comprehend how heartbreaking it is to realize that a guy you thought was your friend was really just trying to get into your pants. Friendship is real. It’s emotional, it’s important to us. We lean on our friends. Knowing that your friend was secretly seething with resentment when you were opening up to him and sharing your problems because he felt like he shouldn’t have to do that kind of emotional work for anyone not having sex with him, and he felt used by you for that reason, is horrible. And the fact that men can’t share emotional needs with other men means that lots of men who can’t get a girlfriend end up turning into horrible misogynistic people who think the world owes them the love of a woman, like it’s a commodity… because no one will die without sex. Masturbation exists. But people will die or suffer deep emotional trauma from having no one they can lean on emotionally. And men who are suffering deep emotional trauma, and have been trained to channel their personal trauma into rage because they can’t share it, become mass shooters, or rapists, or simply horrible misogynists.

The only way to fix this is to teach boys it’s okay to love your friends. It’s okay to share your needs and your problems with your friends. It’s okay to lean on your friends, to hug your friends, to be weak with your friends. Only if this is okay for boys to do with their male friends can this problem be resolved… so men, this one’s on you. Women can’t fix this for you; you don’t listen to us about matters of what it means to be a man. Fix your own shit and teach your brothers and sons and friends that this is okay, or everyone suffers.

The next time a guy says, “What? You don’t want to be my friend?” I’ll text him this and then ask if he really wants to be friends or just have another potential girlfriend.

y’all I am living for these analyses where the new way to fight the patriarchy is to teach men to love each other and themselves

Im a communication student and can confirm the above is absolutely 100% accurate and it’s called agentic vs communal friendship theorized by Steven McCornack

lysikan:

seananmcguire:

“If a society puts half its children into short skirts and warns them not to move in ways that reveal their panties, while putting the other half into jeans and overalls and encouraging them to climb trees, play ball, and participate in other vigorous outdoor games; if later, during adolescence, the children who have been wearing trousers are urged to “eat like growing boys,” while the children in skirts are warned to watch their weight and not get fat; if the half in jeans runs around in sneakers or boots, while the half in skirts totters about on spike heels, then these two groups of people will be biologically as well as socially different. Their muscles will be different, as will their reflexes, posture, arms, legs and feet, hand-eye coordination, and so on. Similarly, people who spend eight hours a day in an office working at a typewriter or a visual display terminal will be biologically different from those who work on construction jobs. There is no way to sort the biological and social components that produce these differences. We cannot sort nature from nurture when we confront group differences in societies in which people from different races, classes, and sexes do not have equal access to resources and power, and therefore live in different environments. Sex-typed generalizations, such as that men are heavier, taller, or stronger than women, obscure the diversity among women and among men and the extensive overlaps between them… Most women and men fall within the same range of heights, weights, and strengths, three variables that depend a great deal on how we have grown up and live. We all know that first-generation Americans, on average, are taller than their immigrant parents and that men who do physical labor, on average, are stronger than male college professors. But we forget to look for the obvious reasons for differences when confronted with assertions like ‘Men are stronger than women.’ We should be asking: ‘Which men?’ and ‘What do they do?’ There may be biologically based average differences between women and men, but these are interwoven with a host of social differences from which we cannot disentangle them.”

Ruth Hubbard, “The Political Nature of ‘Human Nature’ “

(via gothhabiba )

Yes.

(via geardrops)

tl:dr summary: “We cannot sort nature from nurture when we confront group differences in societies in which people from different races, classes, and sexes do not have equal access to resources and power, and therefore live in different environments.”

Tips for Writing a Transgender Character

agendervic:

If you’re planning on writing a fanfic/story with a trans character, you might want to read this. If you’re cis and you’re planning on writing a fanfic/story with a trans character, I would quite recommend that you read this. Even if you’re not planning on writing a trans character anytime soon, you could want to read this. These are some things about trans people to keep in mind when you’re writing, brought to you by your local nonbinary emo who is very angry and very desperate for respectful trans representation.

(Okay, seriously, I really would appreciate it if you’d read this because I think it could possibly be very helpful.)

Keep reading

humanity-shines:

advanced-procrastination:

anghraine:

lisa-franck:

gregthyst-is-real:

cannibal-rainbow:

“they” (1 word) is shorter than “he or she” (3 words)

“they” is more inclusive than “he/she”

“themself” flows more naturally than “him or herself

“they” is less clunky than “(s)he”

it’s time to replace the awkward “she or he

“hey can you go ask they what does they want for dinner, and when is they coming over to watch movies with they?”

“Hey, can you go ask them what they want for dinner, and when they’re coming over to watch movies?”

Step one is learning how to talk like a human person.

Friendly reminder:

“I shouldn’t like to punish anyone, even if they’d done me wrong.” —George Eliot, The Mill on the Floss (1860)

“A person can’t help their birth.” —William Thackeray, Vanity Fair (1848)

“But to expose the former faults of any person, without knowing what their present feelings were, seemed unjustifiable.” —Jane Austen, Pride and Prejudice (1813)

“Every Fool can do as they’re bid.” —Jonathan Swift, Polite Conversation (1738)

“So likewise shall my heavenly Father do also unto you, if ye from your hearts forgive not every one his brother their trespasses.” —King James Bible, Matthew 18:35 (transl. 1611)

“God send every one their heart’s desire!” —William Shakespeare, Much Ado About Nothing (~1600)

“Now this king did keepe a great house, that euerie body might come and take their meat freely.” —Sir Philip Sidney, the Arcadia (1580)

“If … a psalme scape any person, or a lesson, or els yt they omyt one verse or twayne…” —William Bonde, The Pylgrimage of Perfection (1526)

“And whoso fyndeth hym out of swich blame, / They wol come up and offre a Goddés name” —Geoffrey Chaucer, The Pardoner’s Tale (~1380)

“þan hastely hiȝed eche wiȝt on hors & on fote, / huntyng wiȝt houndes alle heie wodes, / til þei neyȝþed so neiȝh to nymphe þe soþe [Then hastily hied each person on horse and on foot / hunting with hounds all the high woods / ‘til they came so near, to tell the truth]” —William and the Werwolf (transl. ~1350-1375)

“Bath ware made sun and mon, / Aiþer wit þer ouen light [Both were made sun and moon / Either with their own light]” —Cursor Mundi (~1325)

We’ve been using they/them/their pronouns to indicate a person with unspecified gender for a long ass fucking time. The only reason it’s become a big issue lately is because it can be used as a semi-respectful term for trans and non-binary folks and we can’t have that can we

These fucks are literally trying to change our language to hurt trans/nb folks, and claiming that’s just the way its always been

Also most languages have gender neutral terminology.

dodgylogic:

insufficient-earth-skills:

moon-boob:

fecundism:

prissygrrrl:

fecundism:

fecundism:

ive been reading a book that basically explains how so-called “brain differences” between the genders is the result of gendered socialization and not the cause of it. i honestly expected the book to be very cis-centric but its actually the opposite, the author stresses that testimony from trans ppl is actually indispensable because we’ve, in a sense, “lived both experiences”

more cis feminists should have this mindset

one of the first examples that she uses to introduce her point about how perception by others can shape a person’s performance actually uses a trans woman. it explains that as a certain trans woman became to be seen as a woman more and more frequently, the ppl arond her eventually started viewing her as being ill equipped for tasks that they did not bother her about pre-transition. eventually she even found herself underperforming in these tasks herself.

whats the name of the book

Delusions of Gender by Cordelia Fine

Here’s a pdf, babes ❤

I knew it was this book before I’d finished reading the first two lines. Honestly this book is indispensible if you want to debunk any gender determinism people claim is science. I can’t recommend it enough.

She’s written a new one! It won the Royal Society prize for science book of the year, and it’s called Testosterone Rex, and it is excellent.

(Bonus: it’s making old white men really really mad.)

(Bonus bonus: I am myself a neuroscientist, and the old white men mentioned above – who are not – could not have missed the point harder if they’d actively tried. Which. Maybe?)

Myths and false concerns about puberty blockers

twshitlord:

myragewillendworlds:

Gender dysphoria is the intense, painful feeling that the physical sex of one’s body is ‘wrong’, resulting in the strong desire to become the opposite sex. A transgender person is someone who suffers from gender dysphoria, often from a very young age.

Puberty blockers, or hormone blockers, are used to suppress puberty in gender dysphoric children at the onset of puberty. They temporarily prevent the development of (secondary) sex characteristics, many of which are irreversible. This buys them extra time and allows them to make a decision about their body at an age where they’re better able to handle the responsibility.

“Children shouldn’t medically transition!”

A useless argument, because children do not medically transition to begin with. Cross-sex hormone therapy is not started before the age of 16-18 years old. For children, ‘transition’ usually consists of things like name and pronoun changes, clothing changes, hair style changes, changes in their social lives, and if eligible, temporary puberty suppression. These are all non-permanent changes.

“Children can’t make such a decision yet!”

Hormone blockers are not a permanent decision, it is the delay of one. Hormone blockers simply put puberty on hold. When the child stops taking them, puberty commences as normal. They are fully reversible. It allows them time until they can make the decision. This ensures it becomes their choice, not that of the parents or strangers on the internet.

“They aren’t safe!”

Hormone blockers have been deemed (relatively) safe by the medical professionals using and studying them. [1]

The choice for hormone blockers is about risk reduction. No medication is 100% safe. But in the case of a genuinely dysphoric teenager, who is at risk for, or already suffering from: major depression, self-harm, eating disorders, trauma/PTSD, permanent physical alterations that may result in unsuccessful transition and life-long gender dysphoria, and at worst, suicide – then hormone blockers preventing and reducing all these symptoms are by far the safer option. [2] [3] [4]

“Hormone blockers lead to a loss of bone mass, which will lead to osteoporosis.”

An unfounded claim, one countered by a study that followed 127 patients receiving hormone blockers, which concluded that the blockers had minimal effect on the bone mineral density, and upon receiving cross-sex hormone therapy was able to fully catch up to normal or near-normal levels. [5]

“Hormone blockers prevent the male genitals from reaching adult size, which makes bottom surgery impossible!”

This affects MtF patients only. It cannot be used as an argument to deny FtM patients hormone blockers.

It’s also false. Hormone blockers delay puberty. The patient can always choose to stop them and let natural puberty commence, should they consider that worth it. Secondly, this is not the only possibility for MtF bottom surgery. There are options that don’t rely on the enlargement of the male genitalia (or on its presence at all, if the genitalia have been fully removed). [6] [7]

“Hormone blockers might halt brain development.”

There is no evidence for this claim. However, there is evidence that hormone blockers have no significant effect on executive functioning (basic cognitive processes that help you memorize, organize and complete tasks). [8]

An fMRI-study in adolescents with gender dysphoria determined whether the performance on the Tower of London task, a commonly used executive functioning task, was altered in adolescents on hormone blockers. The study found no significant effect of hormone blockers on performance scores (reaction times and accuracy) when comparing treated gender dysphoric patients with untreated patients. [9]

“We don’t fully understand all the long-term consequences of hormone blockers.”

We probably don’t fully understand all the consequences of what administering chemotherapy to children might do in the long term either, and the late effects we do know of can be quite serious, but surely you wouldn’t advocate we let young cancer patients die instead.

When self-harm and suicide become realistic risks in a young gender dysphoric patient, hormone blockers are still the safer path.

“They’re not gonna die without them. It’s unnecessary.”

Puberty suppression leads to an improved global psychosocial functioning in gender dysphoric adolescents. [10] [11]

Generally people interpret “life-threatening” as “the body will physically die if we do nothing,” while suicide is seen as a deliberate choice. But the healthy don’t commonly choose to commit suicide, and if we took a moment to stop treating the long-term depressed as whiners, fakers or people who just need to do some yoga and cheer up, we could view suicide as the possible outcome of an untreated, ill brain the way death is the possible outcome of an untreated cancer.

When hormone blockers are the only treatment to successfully alleviate the depression and suicidal urges, we can say hormone blockers are necessary and life-saving.

“The body shouldn’t go too long without sex hormones.”

The
Dutch model for transgender care, recommended by the World Professional
Association for Transgender Health as standard procedure, recommends a
maximum of 4 years on hormone blockers, giving patients until the age of
16-18 to make a permanent decision. Patients begin puberty suppression on average around the age of 14, and continue for about three years. [12, page 45] [13]

“Chemicals are bad!!”

Everything is chemicals.

You wouldn’t make this argument to deny child cancer patients chemotherapy.

“Children can’t know they’re transgender.”

Studies support the theory that brains are sexually dimorphic and there is a neurological basis for the feeling of being male or female. This helps explain why a person may feel male/female while their physical body is the opposite. The fact that gender dysphoria exists all over the world and can even be traced back in history, no matter the drastic differences in societies, shows that it cannot have a purely social cause, and current theories strongly suggest that, much like sexuality, people are born with a ‘brain sex’. [14] [15]

This is also reflected in the story of David Reimer, a biological boy who was raised as a girl after a botched circumcision. Psychologist John Money set out to prove that gender identity was taught, not innate. However, David never identified with his reassigned gender, and upon finally learning the truth, underwent reconstructive surgeries to become physically male again. David attempted suicide several times during his teenage years. [16] [17]

Children may be incapable of fully understanding the concepts of gender, sex and the medical transition process, but because of the biological nature of the condition, this is not required to suffer from gender dysphoria. Children are not incapable of feeling (emotional) pain or when something is ‘wrong’ with their body. Little boys found with sharp objects to cut off their genitalia due to the severe distress they cause them are not just stories, these children really exist. Hormone blockers provide them relief and enough time to allow them to make a decision.

“Children don’t even understand sex and what sexual purpose their genitals have!”

Neither gender dysphoria nor genitalia are inherently about sex. Genitals are a natural part of the human body. Transgender people can be completely asexual and still suffer from genital dysphoria. Genital dysphoria is not about the desire to have sex, it’s about correcting the feeling that the body is ‘wrong’.

“Children are stupid. One day they want to be a girl, the next day they’re a cat!”

This is a gross misinterpretation of the serious and long-term nature of gender dysphoria, and the pain and grief it causes a child suffering from it.

When treated right, gender dysphoric children are closely monitored for an ongoing time. If there were such drastic changes, that would exclude them from the diagnosis.

“If children are too young for tattoos, they are too young for this!”

Tattoos are not a necessity, medication where the benefits outweigh the risk is. The transition process for transgender people is not cosmetic or a fashion statement, it is an often live-saving medical need.

And while tattoos are permanent, puberty suppression through hormone blockers is not.

“It’s child abuse!”

Child abuse is ignoring the needs of a child suffering from sincere, long-term emotional pain and knowingly putting them at risk for major depression, self-harm, eating disorders, trauma/PTSD, permanent physical alterations that may result in unsuccessful transition and life-long gender dysphoria, and at worst, suicide.

“Children will grow out of it.”

Your data on how many children may grow out of it will differ incredibly based on the area you research. For example, the model used in the Netherlands

follows teenagers on hormone blockers through the years and ultimately saw every single one of them transition to the opposite sex, with none of them regretting it. Another article discussing the Dutch model states “I’ve yet to see one change their mind [..] because we’re using the psychological testing methods the Dutch have perfected, and they’ve yet to see one person change their mind. And they’ve run 100 kids through the treatment.” [18]

This clinic found that:

Gender Dysphoria may exist in childhood, but in only a minority of prepubertal children GD does it persist into adolescence. The percentage of “persisters” appears to be between 10% and 27%.

However:

Children who are still experiencing GD when entering puberty almost invariably go on to become gender dysphoric adults.
[19]

A difference must be made between prepubescent children and adolescent children. The number that shows the majority of children will grow out of it affects prepubescent children only. Once gender dysphoria has persisted into adolescence, a child will “almost invariably” continue to suffer from it into adulthood. Growing out of it is no longer a common occurrence by this age, the age at which puberty suppressing medication first becomes an option.

Areas where statistics would show more detransitioners don’t automatically indicate a problem with the concept of hormone blockers, they indicate a problem with the assessment of who should receive them. It doesn’t mean hormone blockers shouldn’t be an option at all. A model that sees no regrets and few (zero may be unrealistic) mistakes is a real possibility, as the Dutch are already applying it. [20]

“I thought I was transgender as a kid, it would have been a mistake to give me hormones!”

The vast majority of these cases are about children who were gender non-conforming, but felt no distress about the physical sex of their body. Gender non-conformity alone, however, is not enough to diagnose gender dysphoria. Distress about the physical sex of the body and a desire to be the opposite sex must be present as well. The Dutch model for transgender care would not have found these patients eligible for hormone blockers. [21] This means these people were misdiagnosed. While that is a problem worth discussing as well, this has nothing to do with children who do suffer from gender dysphoria. You can’t use a wrong diagnosis to deny the rightfully diagnosed patients the treatment they need.

Furthermore, even if these children were given hormone blockers, the reversible nature of hormone blockers would have prevented any permanent damage. They too would have been given the extra time to make a decision, stop the treatment once they realized they weren’t transgender, and experience natural puberty as normal. There would have been nothing to regret because the treatment is reversible.

“Transtrending is a big problem. This one doctor/clinic hands out hormones like candy!”

Proving that there are doctors and/or clinics out there that use a faulty model to diagnose this condition doesn’t mean that the very concept of pausing puberty in the truly gender dysphoric is in itself wrong. The model used in the Netherlands shows that it is in fact possible to successfully diagnose gender dysphoric children and prevent such regrets and mistakes.

“It’s best to do nothing and let them experience puberty.”

You are not “doing nothing” when you deny a gender dysphoric teenager the option of hormone blockers. Forcing a gender dysphoric teen to go through natural puberty is also an irreversible, permanent decision that may have severely damaging and equally permanent consequences.

Puberty is puberty. If you are against parents “pushing” a teenager through cross-sex hormone therapy, you should be against parents forcing a gender dysphoric teenager through natural puberty as well. Hormone blockers are the only option that leave the decision with the person it affects.

Furthermore, understand that the Dutch model recommends that the patient has reached Tanner stage 2 or 3 [22] and be older than 12 years of age:

Some experience with one’s physical puberty is required because the authors assume that experiencing one’s own puberty is diagnostically useful. It is at the onset of puberty that it becomes clear whether the gender dysphoria will desist or persist. Starting around Tanner stages 2 to 3, the very first physical changes are still reversible. [23]

Susan Maasch, director of the Trans Youth Equality Foundation in Portland, Maine, states that:

There’s no way to make the child not feel the way they do. So the goal
should be to help them be less afraid… Treating them with a safe,
well-known hormone to temporarily prevent puberty has become a standard
of care because it buys these children time and a measure of relief.
[24]

The only real neutral option here is to delay the decision with fully reversible hormone blockers.

“I’m still undecided on where I stand…”

Good news. You don’t have to decide anything. It’s not your call to make. It’s not up to us to play doctor from behind our screens.

I make no decisions for these children either. All I advocate for is that the option of hormone blockers is available. I advocate for a medical model that takes gender dysphoria in children seriously, while still preventing mistakes and regrets. A model that allows doctors and parents to make the best choice for the individual child’s needs, while leaving any permanent decisions in the hands of the patient.

We don’t have to decide. We simply have to show some empathy and understanding for the pain these children suffer from, and the understanding that there are those that truly need the option of hormone blockers.


I know I’ve made comments in the past, but with the comprehensive information here, I have to say that my stance has evolved a lot.

I really appreciate @myragewillendworlds for putting all this info and all these resources together. Thank you so much for helping everyone get a better understanding of the matter.