wait no I think I figured it out
‘pee your pants’ bothers me most b/c nobody is allowed to be bothered by it
it’s too silly to be offensive
it’s too childish to be upsetting
‘hey, it’s better than saying ‘kys’’ (it is, but that doesn’t mean it’s completely ok)
it’s not actually sexual (i mean some people kink on it but don’t assume that’s how it’s meant or you’re the weird one)
it’s ableist towards people who experience incontinence, but as incontinence has a lot of stigma attached people understandably aren’t stepping forward to complain (so it can be safely ignored)
on the scale of anti nastiness, it’s basically nothing
it’s so absurd it’s practically a joke insult. in fact it is a joke. why can’t you take a joke?
stop being so sensitive, people say worse things all the time
and if you try to pin it down as mean, insulting, and intentionally invoking humiliation, most everyone (including anti-antis) can agree that you’re just overreacting.
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